My mother is driving me crazy with this obsession she has with planning her funeral. The woman is only 65 years old and in perfect health. There’s no reason for her to be deciding between caskets and funeral cremation urns at this point in her life! She has even made a list of the preacher she wants to do the service, the woman she wants to sing and the piano player to accompany her. I’m not done! She’s also made out a list of how much money we should pay each person who participates. This is too creepy for me and I think I need to let my sister step in and handle this.